Throughout my time surveying, I have heard a lot of about
the health-related and economic ordeals that many Basotho caregivers face. I am
always impressed by their resilience and their kind, welcoming demeanor in the
face of challenges.
I spoke to many bo-‘m’e
(women caregivers), who did not have a job or other form of income, that
were supporting 6+ children, taking care of cattle, and maintaining fields or
gardens. This work has certainly taken a toll on their health. These women are
so strong and, as many have recounted on this blog, are definitely the backbone
of the Basotho society. The duty of ensuring the health and livelihood of all
its members usually falls on these women.
The bo-‘m’e would welcome me into their home and offer me a
chair (even if they only had one) and would listen and respond tentatively to
my survey. The stories they had to tell about their daily challenges are heart
wrenching as well as inspiring. Sometimes I was emotionally overwhelmed by the
situations that these individuals faced, but I had to remind myself to bounce
back. I would be doing these individuals a disservice by getting not completing
my work. I want to tell the story of these caregivers, usually women and often
grandmothers, and hopefully see future interventions that improve their health
and economic standing as well as the health of the children they raise.
I am amazed and grateful to these women for agreeing to take
time out of their hectic schedule to talk to a complete stranger and share
their knowledge and kindness. I only hope that one day I can repay them.
I like to think that this experience has humbled me some and
helped me remember not to complain as much about my daily trivialities. While I
joke about timeliness, bumpy roads, and long walking distances, these are just
everyday things the Basotho caregivers do not even fret about.
I want to thank the Basotho people, specifically the
caregivers and children, for their time, stories, willingness to help, as well
as their patience and acceptance of me and my research. Without their
enthusiastic and willing participation my research would not be possible.
Thanks also to the TTL staff for their assistance in coordinating my surveys
and helping my research to progress as much as it did in such a short period of
time. Kea leboha!
My research will not change Lesotho immediately, or even
substantially, but I hope that in some small way I can contribute to change in
the lives of these strong Basotho caregivers, just as they have had a profound
impact on me.
As we say in Lesotho: Khotso.
Pula. Nala.
Bianca
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